Bad dating website photos
“We suspect it’s because our face is overly familiar to us,” says White.“This familiarity appears to make it harder to choose the specific shot that best portrays us.” Some research supports this idea.This tip originated on the Ok Cupid’s Ok Trends blog in January 2010.The post was called The 4 Big Myths of Profile Pictures.
The Quest for Desirability Motivates Dishonesty Users admit to some degree of misrepresentation in profile construction in order to make themselves more attractive,  although most characterize such misrepresentations as exaggerations, as opposed to outright lies. Such misrepresentation — admittedly utilized by 51 percent of participants in a study by researcher Monica Whitty — includes information about appearance, age, weight, current relationships, interests, and socioeconomic status. Some research reveals that women are likely than men to lie about their appearance and to use outdated photos, to appeal to men's presumed emphasis on physical attractiveness. Avoid Photo Fraud: Date an Extravert One type of photo that provides a glimpse of the person behind the profile is the selfie, a timely snapshot of transparency — and research shows that the individuals most likely to post selfies are extraverts.  Lo et al., "Contradictory Deceptive Behavior in Online Dating."  Whitty, ”Revealing the ´real ‘me,” 1714. You can contact him on michaelstealth9 at gmail dot com . This is the only way I can thank him for helping me.
White is now studying whether a friend can offer the distance necessary to choose your next flattering photo.
For now, since strangers are often the ones you’re trying to impress on social media, it might be best to poll them about your best angle.
In a similarly designed past study, when White asked people to pick the images that looked the most like them, they didn’t do very well. People were able to select the most identifiable images for strangers, but not for themselves.
Being familiar with a face comes with a lot of perks.